The first spanking

His name may as well be Marty, that is how he looks to me. He described himself as being chubby and he was pleasantly so......with little love handles to grab a hold of and pinch. He has shaggy curls on his head too so hair pulling is always an option but on the first occasion I was more intent upon coloring his buttocks.


Marty had the luxury of visiting me at home and was given strict instructions to follow upon arrival. I directed him to the bathroom where he stripped before crawling back to kneel at my feet. It was the very first time I had the control of a naked human. The sight of him crawling and then kneeling at my feet gave me the most exquisite sensation of pleasure.


I slowly circled him feeling his skin and muscle. I tested a few slaps on his bottom and contemplated more to come. His cock was erect and dripping, by the time the session finished I had learned a lot about the continuous drip of precum and would be alerted to the need to corral it in future. Still the sight of it gave me confidence to begin the play in earnest.


Black silk secrets in lace panties were drawn over his head. They did not completely obscure his vision but with my scent on them they certainly captured his senses. His hands were bound behind his back and then I brought out the pegs. I had one dozen to split evenly over his balls. My troubles began, I was a novice with tightly aroused ball sacks. The pulling and tugging to get enough skin to attach the pegs must have added greatly to his arousal in a positive feedback loop that I did not appreciate. At last they were all in place and my admiration for those who can achieve pretty peg pictures was raised.


What is an irritated woman to do? Spank the boy's bottom. I had some fun. First he got six hard slaps then I leaned over his shoulder to ruffle the pegs. Back to his bottom and further application of a firm hand. I was watching the clock, he was to get 15 minutes of the pegs so it was a good spanking with the inclusion of the peg play and some encouraging chat that provided disclosure of his fantasies to me.

I laid down on the floor to look at his cock and balls. Teasingly I flicked them and then began to remove the pegs. I took my time enjoying his deep breaths and the jerking of his cock. When the last peg was gone I pulled him to his feet and led him to the bed where more rope was waiting.

His hands were briefly freed before he was secured on all fours in the center of the bed. I was feeling HOT. Not seeing why he should have all the fun I lay beside him and began to play with myself. That was good having an orgasm while he waited.

Butt plug and belt - they were next. I slid on a condom, lubed the plug up and in it went. Not a huge plug but just the right size for some prostate stimulation. I like using the belt, love the sound of the slap on the flesh and enjoy the ease of placing it. So I let it fall twelve times and then asked if he would like more. Of course he did so I continued. Sometimes I stopped to waggle the butt plug but mostly I enjoyed the feel of the leather in my hand.

Time was running out. The ropes were released, the belt was put away and the butt plug removed. I took the panties off his head and he stood up. There was his cock still rock hard and dripping. I sat down,spread my legs so he could see what he could not have. Told him to wank and come very quickly or he would be leaving with a hard-on. So Marty became the first man I watched stroking his cock, watching it with intensity until cum spurted all over the place.

meeting my first victim

Extended email passed between myself and the respondent who had previously visited pro-dommes. With them he had tried a wide range of activities which freed me to do what ever I wanted with him, my experience being so limited. I arranged to meet him outside the central train station early one morning before work. I felt that would test his sincerity.


I sent an email telling him I would be wearing a black leather jacket and black patent boots with bright red finger nails. He replied saying how hard it would be to identify me in a city renowned for women dressing black. I put him straight....there would be no-one else to compare with me, he was to arrive on time and without further complaint.


So I stood on the street outside the station as people rushed in their hordes towards their offices. A stationary woman who could not be missed. As he walked up the road our eyes met and connection was made. I led him to a nearby cafe to order coffee for us both.

We sat on stools in a far corner where I could view the room and he could view me. With all the disclosures he had made about submitting I was able to amuse myself questioning him closely and watching him squirm uncertain how much was being over heard by the others in the room. There was potential for me to enjoy spanking him and he was already hard feeding his fantasy with the real woman in front of him.

I told him that I would arrange a time to play and then we left. As we did all eyes in the room swiveled to follow our progress out the door.

Advertising on Craigslist

The desire to play with a submissive man grew slowly as I read blogs written by them and by Dominant women. When I visited kinky sex toy stores it was to browse the various torture toys with a view to using them on a willing sub. I picked up books on cock and ball torture and these fueled my desire to much higher level.

Eventually I was ready to act. I placed an advert on Craigslist seeking a submissive male to kneel at my feet and submit to my desires. Within a few hours I had received twenty replies and I withdrew the ad.

There were:

Six replies with dick photos - they were deleted.

Six replies saying Hi Babe you sound Hot - they were deleted.

Five replies that sounded possible but when I made it clear that I wanted to play with their bodies whilst denying access to mine they all suddenly became silent.

One reply from a Dominant male that wanted a submissive experience. We continued to email and I set him a task to complete. He failed and I wrote him off.

One reply from an accomplished writer. He knew all the right words and it was clear that he was playing. We met for an interesting night but he certainly wasn't submissive.

One reply detailed all the submissive acts that the man had enjoyed. I asked if he had done all these things with a pro-domme and when a positive reply came told him that my skill level and inexperience would probably disappoint him. He continued to insist that any level of control would satisfy him.....his need was great. I agreed to meet him.

I begin....

It gives me so much pleasure to tease and torment a naked male on his knees that I really do have to share those moments. I first posted an advert on Craigslist way back at the beginning of the year and tentatively took control of a very needy submissive male who offered himself to me to practice upon. Following that delicious experience I replied to the advert of another submissive male in need of control and gained a regular play partner.

The tales from those early days have been posted previously on another blog (now closed down) but I am re-posting them here so that my journey in to the wonderful world of the Domme is chronicled from the start.